This research aimed to explore how kinks and fetishes are conceptualised, experienced, and negotiated by asexual individuals. Forty-eight participants were recruited to take part in an online qualitative survey. Thematic analysis resulted in three themes. In “Am I asexual?”: (How) can you be a kinky ace? We discuss the sense of dissonance which some participants reported in negotiating what was seemingly the paradox between their self-identity as asexual and their exploration of kinks and fetishes. In the second theme, Between me and me’ and make believe: Kinks and fetishes as solo and imaginary, we report on how kinks, fetishes, and fantasies were often understood in a solitary context and as either undesirable – or impossible – to live out. In the final theme, Kink as a sensual enhancement in relationships, we highlight how participants positioned kinks and fetishes as an agent for intimacy.

<aside> 😈 These findings expand our knowledge of how asexual people negotiate kinks and fetishes and capture the complexities of asexual identities.

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(From the abstract)

This study suggests that some asexual people have diverse knowledge of kinks and fantasy, and may embrace their desires, incorporating them into their identity and relationships. Future research should be utilised to expand our awareness and understanding of the nuances within specific asexual identities, and people’s experiences of them, in turn helping increase knowledge within and outside the community.

<aside> 😈 This study offers a unique contribution to asexuality literature that combines both theoretical approaches with qualitative data, providing a narrative to the complex identities of asexual individuals with kinks and fetishes.

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It also offers professionals the opportunity to expand their knowledge of the asexual community and in turn support ‘kinky aces’ negotiate and understand their identity." (P. 176)